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September 23, 2009

TwitterHated

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Lots of people know about social networking’s rising star Twitter. It’s become somewhat of a phenomenon since it got around to getting more prevalent in the last year or so. Twitter’s rise to fame has been so sudden that in one year, the company behind it has been thought to have been worth at least a billion. And it doesn’t seem to be going down anytime soon.

But Twitter isn’t without its share of detractors and haters. I know plenty of people who look at bits of Twitter news and immediately come to the conclusion, somewhat fearfully, that were they to try Twitter they would be bombarded by all means of mindless minutiae, from someone’s bowel movements to a boring 140-character treatise on cleaning dirt from under fingernails. Others simply don’t see the point of a service that further increases the gap between actually talking to a person and using technology to achieve the same thing, at the price of a loss of personal contact. All in all, though there are perhaps millions using Twitter these days, there are plenty of people that just aren’t sold – or worse yet, might even hate those of us who use it.

I get how some of these people feel about Twitter. I mean, I’ve followed people who have met every Twitter stereotype under the sun. When I hear about someone having a hangover in great and disgusting detail, I wonder where some people’s priorities lie when it comes to themselves. There are people like Perez Hilton, for example, who would rather tweet about something terrible that happened to them rather than actually get help for themselves right away. These are the people I immediately unfollow. It’s safe to say that if you want to tweet about the fact that you poked your own eye out with a pen and that you are desperately trying to see, that I’ll probably not be interested.

But Twitter haters should see that Twitter isn’t all about whoring the details of your life. Twitter’s appeal in more practical matters lies in the fact that it’s a real-time marketing tool, able to send coverage of an event instantly, such as breaking news bits. It’s a great way to find others with the same interests by examining trending topics and trading quick messages. It’s an immediate way to get individuals together for outreach causes, such as those who are currently using Twitter for raising funds for charity. Twitter isn’t worth what it is because of the fact that your friends can tell you about how they failed to hit on their 5th person for the night. It’s worth what it is because of the real-time nature of its technology and its practical Swiss Army knife of uses to employ it.

Really, like with any piece of technology, it’s all about how you use it. Trust me on this one – I used to dislike the idea of Twitter, too, until I took a pass at it and used it strictly for keeping up with a few close friends, networking with other websites and people I know in the gaming industry, and working with it to drive traffic, to here and other places. It’s become an invaluable tool in my daily online life, so just like with anything – don’t hate on it til you try it. You might be pleasantly surprised.

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July 23, 2009

Overly Positive Thoughts: Gotta Friend ‘Em All!

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You know, the other day I friended someone on Facebook I hadn’t talked to in years. By all evidence presented, he’s a pretty popular guy, and with good reason. He’s charismatic, knows how to network, and navigates social circles with ease.

But it wasn’t until I saw his Facebook that we could quantify just how popular he was. At this time of writing, this new friend of mine has 1,586 friends.

I gotta say, guys and gals, this man is an inspiration to me and my pathetically small 230+ friend count. We need more people who seek to hit up Facebook intent on making everyone on the Internet their friend.

Think about the networking opportunities. Adding everyone as a friend means that you’ll probably never have to use a search engine again. Why? Because you can just find a friend on Facebook that knows about what you’re looking for. Want to know about Victorian dress? Look up the 35 or so friends you made at the Ren Faire, just by begging them to “check your totally rad Ren Costume album”. Want to know about fission bombs? How about that bunch of physicists that you friended even though you stuffed them into a locker when you went to high school with them. The possibilities are endless.

What about sharing your most precious memories with everyone who will be sure to click on them in the midst of their other hundreds of obsessive status updates? That picture of you shaving your legs to wear a kilt to play bagpipes? Totally worth it to share. The application that allows you to send messages to your friends about how good you are at avoiding productivity at work? Have to be sure to write about it! You need friends for this stuff – because nothing replaces real, human interaction like a Superpoke to all of your friends, 5 times a day.

Collecting friends is the new Pokemon. Get into it – or get out – just not out of my friends list – I need more.

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July 8, 2009

The Facebook Time Machine

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Just yesterday a whole bunch of photos of me in college popped up on Facebook, leading to a lot of having to explain to current friends and associates why I was somehow locked in a faux cage made out of a box and duct tape, or why I’m surrounded by a bevy of women. Ah, college…

But anyway, watching how Facebook disseminated the information about my past exploits (to my embarrassment), and the community tagging that old friends did, it had to validate, somewhat, why Facebook is good for me and others to use.

A lot of people like to tout the tech of Facebook as a way of networking, keeping in contact with friends, and generally updating people on what you’re doing or thinking. But perhaps the secondary, and perhaps underappreciated, function of Facebook is to turn back the clock, share memories, and appreciate “the good old days” – times that you probably took for granted, but which you look back upon with fondness.

When I look at my college photos, and see myself – a bit more carefree, a slight bit lighter in the wasitline, and ready to take on the world, I feel good – not because of where I am now, but because of the fact that back then, I had a foundation on which to get to today. Through good friends, great opportunities, and shared teamwork, I learned values, philosophies, and practices that I carry with me today. Through connections made in college, I’ve gotten farther than I ever could, and for those I’ve kept in close touch with, I have a network of people to draw upon. These are the kinds of things that just aren’t possible without a social networking tool like Facebook.

Maybe this is par for the course for Facebook, since it started out as a university and college-specific application for students. But it’s curious how looking back helps me look forward, as last night’s shenanigans of the past have helped me find and reconnect with people on Facebook and in other places as well. Heck, that’s only in the first 12 hours since the pictures went up, too!

So despite the embarrassment that these photos create for me, it’s nice to see that social networking is worthwhile, that it does help you feel nostalgia as well as a connection, and that technology like Facebook is just going to evolve to make it more worth it. Besides, there are worse ways to spend your lunch break than re-living the (in)famous past.

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April 18, 2009

Something Positive About Non-Geeks

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So, here’s a break from the positive things for geeks….or is it?

Those of you who keep up with the intarwebz might have heard about 47 year old Susan Boyle, whose performance of Les Miserables classic “I Dreamed a Dream” on the Britain’s Got Talent reality show surprised, touched, and moved many people.

Seemingly overnight, the masses on Youtube, Facebook, and Twitter have made Susan Boyle into the Internet’s temporary darling. Sure, there are the usual detractors, but moreso than in other cases, these are the folks who just might be saying what they are just to sound different, rather than wanting to be part of the adoring herd.

So why is it that Susan has become so liked and appreciated? Well, when it comes to the Internet generation and those of us who really are geeks (in the sense of the word that we are, at times, not the trendy people society wants us to be, and therefore, sometimes outcast), Susan’s performance means much more than just a really good singing rendition. No, Susan’s triumph on the scale of what it was, was, for 3 short minutes, a victory for anyone who’s been judged on the basis of their look or socialbility rather than on their raw talent. For others, it was also a stand against the superficiality of society – you know, the kind that throws carefully marketed modeling bodies, commercially contrived itemization, and other such stuff at us. The implied message of such things is that while you may choose to employ what’s being sold, there’a always the nod and wink to the back that you have to be “in” with the “in crowd” to ever have any real success with what you want to do. Susan shattered all of that, turning a crowd who was skeptical, even somewhat scoffing, into fans with an inspirational song that might have been more about her than about the character in Les Miz who sang it.

Let’s be honest here – in a few short weeks, days, or maybe even hours, Susan Boyle will be forgotten, filed away among the massive archive of the Internet as a brief moment of “hey, that was cool”. Cynicism will have its throne back on the World Wide Web shortly, but for now, an older Scotswoman has pushed it off, taken a seat, and gotten comfortable. While Susan’s fame will inevitably be short-lived, that doesn’t make what she did any less significant. For 3 minutes, Susan Boyle said, essentially, “I can”, and if you’ve ever had doubts about doing what you’re doing for fear of failing against the cold, hard stone wall of reality, look her up again. I think you’ll find your inspiration.

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